The Life After Addiction Project

In search of the universal system of life I’ve gathered some useful tools and data. The data is in the “What I Think Might Be The Case” folder and those files are shared throughout this site. There are some good tools here too and I’d like to add this link to one of them:

audio brain tune up

That link takes you to the AudioZip audio play list where you can choose solfeggio sound activator and make use of some “Solfeggio Frequencies”.

This audio can be used to tune your brain to the universal frequencies and that should result in some sort of universal harmony. You can use headphones and take 15 minutes off from your busy busy life to relax and harmonize. Or, you can just let it run in the background like I’m doing as I write this.

The reason I use this type of tool is I believe (today) that our brains and bodies act as receivers and if not tuned in can’t get all thats available -  help, guidance, knowledge and so on from the source. If we’re wrong, well, it feels good regardless.

I get a lot of email from the readers of this blog and other places on the website. At some point I suggest writing on the blog or forum instead of in emails. This doesn’t seem to go over to well.

There is a good reason for using this blog to write on. I know why most of you don’t want to. Many people don’t want there real stuff to go public. Of course there are some things that should never be put on a blog or public forum – but that’s not what we’re talking about right now.

One of the main road blocks to succeeding in anything is the fear of other people. Specifically the fear of peoples reactions to something we do or say. One question we might ask is: Why would we care what other people think of us? Many wise men have said something to the effect of “Know Thyself”. A lot of really knowing oneself comes through looking at ourselves in the “Mirror Of People”. This is useful if we can keep one thing in mind: There are no important people.

What I’ve found out about dealing with fear is that we deal with it by doing the scary stuff. Not just thinking about the scary stuff – Doing the scary stuff, confronting the scary stuff, staring the scary stuff in the face until it turns into boring everyday stuff.

A lot of the time being scared is kind of an emotional fix. We can become dependent on it. It feels like something. The problem is, it stands in the way of real freedom and happiness.

Everyone who contacts me via email is looking for some answer to a situation or condition rooted in fear. The best thing any of these nice people could do for themselves, and others, is to list their fears right here in plain site, for all to see. I’d bet all of anyone else’s money that what will happen, as far as a public response, is – nothing.

It also fulfills that “Service To Others” clause.

99% of the time our fear is far scarier than what we’re afraid of. If we live in fear of trees we need to go find a tree and spend some time with it – up close and personal. If we’re afraid of exposing our fears we need to expose them. Talking to your mom or your sponsor or me in an email doesn’t deal with the fear. That’s not exposure, it’s more slinking around dipping our toes in the water. Jump. Make a huge splash. Make some noise.

Why do people not like being wrong? What’s wrong with being wrong? Is being afraid of something wrong? Is that it? There are very few people on this planet, now or ever, who aren’t afraid of something. All bullies and Cyber bushwhackers (firing shots from behind their user names) are afraid of something. World leaders, the worlds biggest control junkies, are afraid of something.

There are really only two options: expose the fear or continue to live inside it.

Of course if you need/want to email me I’ll continue to answer. These suggestions about using the blog aren’t for my benefit.

There is also room for other writers here. In spite of me doing everything wrong this is a widely read website – a good place to write.

This is most likely an unanswerable question. One can answer the question in part – maybe. If we studied massive numbers of addicts and correlated all their individual beliefs, diets, social origins, family dynamics and so on we’d end up with some useful data but would you be able to use it to answer the question, “What is the cause of addiction?” Doubtful …We  may have gotten to what may cause addiction sometimes in some people but beyond that there is no “The Cause” answer.

I’d like to introduce an idea that you can ponder at length. I came to the conclusion early on in my own pondering that Principles were causative in nature. Thus the Principles As Cause statement in earlier text. If principles are causative and practicing certain principles is an essential part in our Lives after Addiction leading to peace of mind or happiness then wouldn’t the lack of practicing these principles have to play a part in the cause of addiction?

Take our basic application of the following principles: Honesty, Open Mindedness and Willingness. I’m convinced that those who  sincerely practice these principles end up living  more realistically. So what if they are absent? What if the practice of these principles is absent in the Society or Family where people are brought up. You see where I’m going?

I’m convinced that an unrealistic thought life, an unrealistic world view, is the antipathy of genuine happiness and the lack of genuine happiness is one aspect of all addiction, dependence and all other addictive behavior. I guess that’s my “Thought For The Day”.

If we’re in for a shift in consciousness brought on by the galactic alignment of 2012 I know what I’d like that to include. I was watching a short clip with the current puppet president mouthing script at a high school. The students were yelling about suppressing people walking with the OWS crowd and he had to shut his mouth and stand there until the parents and teachers started chanting Obama Obama like the brain washed cult followers they are.

I really hope that the new world is one in which we break our fear based tendency toward dependence and idol worship